family.
Not like many others, I have never been one that is close to my grandparents. Never got to see my paternal grandma. My paternal grandpa passed away when I was pretty young, not an age that you would be filial to. And all I could rmb about him was that he was bed-ridden and when my cousin and I played hide and seek and hid in his room, he will bring out his walking cane and threaten us with it cause he didnt want us to run around in the house.
My maternal grandparents. They have never been on the best terms. They would not talk to each other and they would fight most of the time. I have no idea what my grandpa did but everyone in the house seems to not like him. So to me, I have never had the kind of grandparents love. The kind that everyone else seems to have. The loving old couples. And having everyone over to celebrate their birthdays. I dont even know how old they are now. I guess that's probably why I dont have that much of respect to elderly as what others have and I cant communicate with them that much. Srsly, throw me to an elderly and I will not know what to do. Sometimes I do wonder how I'll be different if I've been closer to my grandparents.
But one thing I know is that I want my future children to be close to my parents. Hahahas.
